A calm five-minute recovery

You broke your habit streak. What should you do next?

A broken streak changes the counter, not the work you already did. First, record what happened without blame. Then choose deliberately: continue under your original rules, restart a consecutive challenge, or modify a rule that was unclear or unrealistic. Complete one small action today so the next step is concrete.

Private reset decision tree

A miss is evidence. Decide what changes next.

This tool starts after a missed day. It applies the same four rules every time and keeps every answer only in this open tab.

1 · Declared tracking ruleWhat rule did this attempt use before the miss?
2 · Clarity and realismCould another person tell whether the original rule was complete?
3 · Safety and current capacityIs the original action appropriate to repeat now?
4 · Present commitmentWhat do you honestly choose now?

No account, server request, browser storage, or analytics event records these answers. Closing the tab clears them.

No verdict about your character.

The result will describe the missed record, the boundary to protect, and one concrete next action.

Answer four questions to get one deterministic next step.

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The five-minute reset

  1. State what happened.Use one factual sentence without a character judgment.
  2. Check the contract.Did the original rule require consecutive days?
  3. Choose deliberately.Continue, restart, or modify—do not drift into a new rule silently.
  4. Add one protection.Change a cue, minimum action, time, or environment.
  5. Act today.Complete the smallest useful action available now.

Continue, restart, or modify?

ChooseUse whenWhat happens
ContinueYour original rule allowed misses or used a weekly target.Keep the same window and record the missed day.
RestartYour contract explicitly required consecutive completion.End the attempt honestly and choose a new Day 1.
ModifyThe rule was unclear, unrealistic, or unsuitable.Rewrite the finish line before continuing.

Five useful diagnostic questions

  • Was the daily action specific enough?
  • Was a time or cue protected?
  • Was the minimum action small enough for a difficult day?
  • Did the environment make the action unavailable?
  • What one change would make the next attempt more robust?

Tomorrow at [time], after [cue], I will [minimum action]. If the full version is unavailable, I will [safe fallback]. My tracking rule is [rule].

What See You in 90 keeps after a reset

Sources and evidence limits

  1. Lally et al. (2010), European Journal of Social Psychology

    The study reported substantial variation in modeled automaticity and a limited finding about one missed opportunity. It does not prove that misses never matter or prescribe a reset rule.

Questions after a broken streak

Does one missed day erase a habit?

No. It may break a streak counter or end a strict attempt, but completed actions and prior learning still happened.

Should I always restart?

No. Restart only when consecutive completion was part of the original contract or when you deliberately choose that rule.

How soon should I begin again?

Once the new rule and one concrete protection are clear. You do not need to wait for a symbolic date.

Can I backfill the missed day?

See You in 90 does not allow it. Outside the app, the rules are yours, but a retroactive mark does not make the action occur on the missed date.

What if illness, travel, or circumstances caused the miss?

Record the circumstance without blame and choose a safer or more realistic rule. Protect wellbeing over a counter.